Tuesday, May 11, 2010

Packing Up...

I've been mia for a bit due to family changes
and more. Mothers day was good as the girls
came down again, this time it was to go back 
with our items to Salt Lake. Our family has 
been going through some changes for the 
past two weeks and looks the children & I 
will be heading down to Salt Lake and making
our new home there. As much as I don't like
it..it's a much needed change for dh and I. 

I'll be going back to school and finding a
job there. So many goals I'd like to achieve 
while I try to get back to a life of being able
to do things and work on improving myself.

Dh found out yesterday by phone while at
work. We had several different women 
claiming to be linked to him either by him
supporting them with $$ or having a child 
with him. 

Five of them from January til now..which 
has brought me to my decision to walk 
away while I'm still sane..and never mind 
all the counseling we've been getting from 
our bishop at church.

We had a very tearful family home evening
last night. We each said our sorry and the
kids sat there with tears in their eyes and
understood the reason why I had to leave
with them. Dh wanted to let us know that
the door will always be open to us again
and that he will come down to visit the
little ones often.

I'm excited for what the future holds for 
us there. Hopefully good things.


Lindsay @ Just My Blog said...

I'm so sorry that you are having to deal with all of this. You seem to handling it very gracefully and I'm proud of you for that. Too many women would allow their husbands to continue on in their ways to avoid upsetting their life. I wish you well in SLC and I have no doubt you are absolutely doing the right thing. I know we've never really spoken, but if you need ANYTHING...even just someone to talk to, you can always email me at gamommy2two{at}gmail{dot}com.


Alicia said...

I'm so sorry that you have to go through this. I can only imagine how hard it is for you and your children. Hopefully by you all leaving, he will see what he has risked, and will be willing to really change. Just know that whatever he chooses will be between him and the Lord. He is the one he will have to answer to ultimately.

Puanani503 said...

Thanks ladies:):)..It's a hard decision but the right step forward toward making positive changes in our lives. After reading this Chinese proverb it's making me feel better today..
If you want happiness for an hour—take a nap.
If you want happiness for a day—go fishing.
If you want happiness for a month—get married.
If you want happiness for a year—inherit a fortune.
If you want happiness for a lifetime—help someone else.

Natalie A. said...

I'm so sorry for all that you have been through lately! Wow! You sound so strong and amazing! Keep your positive attitude and I hope all works out for you!! Keep in touch!